I took the advice given by a coworker, to ask John and did some brainstorming last night and all together this is what we came up with (I've written these about myself, but it's obvious how many of my interesting tidbits include John and other loved ones):
- My name is carved into an interior support beam of the top floor of the sears tower (my dad worked there for 16 years when the top floors were built)
- I did some really bad catalog modeling for Bass Pro shops in the mid 80’s (along with my Dad who can hold his own agains any thermal underware model)
- I was an official crew member of an automobile racing team (my dad raced vintage car racing – the name of his car/team was sundial racing b/c in the early days he was so slow we joked we could toss the stop watch and time him using a sundial)
- I’m a double certified scuba diver whose never been open water diving
- I was married in the Boston Public Garden on the same day Hemp (um I mean) Freedom Fest was celebrated in the Common (I’ve been told all of our guests had the munchies)
- I witnessed Pope John Paul II conduct a mass wedding ceremony in Piazza San Pietro at St. Peter’s Church in Rome
- I was on the Italian nightly news – John and I were traveling by train to Civitavecchia when the tracks were flooded out and we were stranded on the train for several hours. We were in a box car with two priests from Spain. The Red Cross showed up to provide everyone with ham croissants and apples. The film crew showed up too and filmed our box car, John and I were drinking Italian beer and playing cards with the two priests looking on (good and evil in one box car!)
- I met Whoopi Goldberg and accused her of being an impersonator (alcohol was involved)
- I have my apprentice black belt in TKD
- I filmed an episode of Trading Spaces with John and my best freinds (no we didn’t meet Paige Davis)
- one last thing (not interesting really, just memorable for me) on this day, September 11th, 4 years ago, I found out I was pregnant with Loretta. My parents were also married on September 11th. Nice to have some fond memories of this date to help counter the bad memories, ya know?
So, what did I learn from this exercise in self awareness? We are so critical of ourselves. We are often never "enough" (smart, pretty, strong, interesting) in our own mind. But, if we look at ourselves with less critical eyes (like through the eyes of our loved ones) we may just see how interesting we really are.